In “Drop in the Bucket” I explore this idea and how all of the ‘tiny injuries’ that occur between two people over years of being in a relationship or friendship become just another ‘drop in the bucket.’ Over time these can add up to a lot of resentment, anger, and codependency which can really weigh down and affect a relationship. And the idea of ‘once you say something you can’t take it back’ could not be more true, and it’s a very dangerous path to go down. Also, the idea that we bring with us all of the ‘tiny injuries’ from past relationships and expect that person to be able to understand all the scars we carry around